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Losing people
I feel that when we lose people, the physical presence of them on this earth is wiped away so quickly. We still have photos of them but the tangible presence that they have earned is released so quickly.
Families are so quick to remove them because the lose of them is so hard to comprehend they need to eradicate all presences of them even speaking about them.
With the loss of both my oldest brother and father within a 2-year period, I have slowed the breaks on doing all the is necessary to ensure that grieving is not rushed so that down the track a trigger will not be so overwhelming that people breakdown and lose a portion of time in their lives, even though a portion of time is lost when they die.
I also believe that society does not do death well.
But you have to stop and think about when is enough support enough for your family members and when do they support you.
Taking is what our society is all about these days those that take and take never give anything back and drain the people who do give whole-heartedly and with out reserve, but even they eventually reach their limits.
Tough love then has to take over to make the people move on and live life to the fullest and re-submit commitment to live and others as a whole instead of a partial.
